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Comments will be disabled for the foreseeable future as our family focuses on Benjamin’s peaceful passage. Your love and prayers are acutely felt and deeply appreciated. There has been another shift of energy in this room. We feel it, our families feel it, our nurses feel it, our community feels it. Mostly, Benjamin feels it.… Continue Reading Day 770/142

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Since Benjamin’s diagnosis, we have asked for guidance to make decisions for his highest good. Today we were guided in a direction we did not expect, but one that could not have been more clear. We are staying on the seventh floor. Last night, Benjamin had a high fever and rapid pulse, and he was… Continue Reading Day 769/141

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“Hope is important because it can make the present moment less difficult to bear. If we believe that tomorrow will be better, we can bear a hardship today.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh Benjamin had such a beautiful window of clarity before we went to sleep last night that Michael and I decided in whispers to approach… Continue Reading Day 768/140

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Benjamin continues to do his brave work, and we continue to make the best decisions we can for him. This has always been true, of course, but we are accustomed to being informed by evidence. Now we are being informed by instinct and love alone. I was woken in the middle of the night when… Continue Reading Day 767/139

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The sky at shift change was a thick, foggy red. This is is a strange and confusing time. I am trying to accept all phases of this slow and peaceful transition, but it is so hard to swallow. We all slept in as late as we could this morning. We woke up needing a quiet… Continue Reading Day 766/138

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The parallels between birth and death continue to make themselves obvious. Both processes have a natural ebb and flow. When there is a deep breath, it is followed by a much needed exhale. When there is a moment of intense pain, it is followed by relaxation and normalcy. These slow waves allow for proper pause,… Continue Reading Day 765/137